7 Ways to Connect with Nonverbal Children
In my work, I occasionally see children who cannot express how they feel through words. It may be they just have not learned yet how to express their emotions with language yet or there are some developmental delays. Connecting with nonverbal children can be challenging, but it is not impossible.
Here are some strategies that may help:
Use nonverbal communication: Children who are nonverbal may still be able to communicate through other means, such as facial expressions, gestures, and body language. Pay attention to your child's nonverbal cues, and respond accordingly.
Use pictures, drawing, and symbols: Some children may be able to communicate using pictures or symbols. You can use a picture communication system, such as a picture exchange communication system (PECS), to help your child express their needs and wants. Or use art therapy to engage the child.
Use technology: There are various assistive technologies available that can help nonverbal children communicate, such as communication devices with pre-recorded messages, or apps that allow children to type or select pictures to express themselves.
Use sign language: Teaching your child sign language can be an effective way to communicate with them. You can learn basic signs together, and gradually build a vocabulary that can help your child express themselves.
Use play: Play is an important way for children to communicate and express themselves. Engage in activities that your child enjoys, such as playing with toys, drawing, or listening to music.
Be patient: Connecting with nonverbal children can take time, so be patient. It's important to understand that they may have difficulty expressing themselves and that it may take time for them to feel comfortable communicating with you.
Seek professional help: If you are concerned about your child's development or communication skills, it's important to seek the help of a professional such as a speech therapist, occupational therapist, or developmental pediatrician. They can help you find the best communication strategies for your child.
Remember that every child is unique and you might need to try different methods to find what works for your child. With patience, persistence, and a positive attitude, you can build a strong and meaningful connection with your nonverbal child.
